Monday, January 21, 2008

craving a change

so there is a lot changing in my apartment so why not spice it all up a little more. my bff and I spent the weekend scavenging the DMV (for those of you not familiar with the DC area that means the DC/Maryland/Virginia area) for great deals on furniture for our bare apartments...


here are some ideas for my apartment:

living room:
bright yellow fabric bulletin board (like this, this or this, maybe even this) (I love these too!)
television
dvd/vcr player

laundry:
shelving (something like this one or this one)

bedroom:
fullsize bed (either this one or this)

kitchen:
paint (not sure yet on the color, hot pink, bright green...)
kitchen table (actually we just bought a black one with black and wicker chairs)

bathroom:
right now its all white and dark blue but I think a little teal/dark turquoise would look great. this is a bad picture of the color but it really is pretty.

Thursday, January 17, 2008

blogworthy day...

as I sit in bed mentally running through my day I have came to the conclusion that it may be blogworthy (one word, yes. its new. websters will have to catch on.)


after finally regaining some control in my life after having a great conversation with my father last night I started today with a new outlook. 

well, lets recap... actually I had a hard time sleeping because I had a big "meeting" today but I also started to received mid-night... oh noo... it was like a 2am text from a guy who i finally got over. well... i had gotten over him for a while. but then he emailed me at work and even though I tried all day not to email him back I broke down at like 1-2pm and emailed him back to see how his recent "business" trip was going. (he has a very interesting job and I always break down and respond to him to hear about his adventures. trust me, they are pretty interesting.) anyhow, I received the message that he had just gotten back into town and really wanted to see me... at 2am. ummm...no! I simple responded with one sleepy eye open that I had a big "meeting" and needed to go to bed. well his emails continued through the night and they made for some interesting reading this morning when i got to work. 

now to work... and we all know how well that is going these days. i get there early, like normal, in fact almost an hour early and to my surprise my dearest co-worker shows up not too long after me. (side note: my dearest co-worker has also been having some trouble at work and my two "bosses" - and i use the term loosely- have been harping on him about his morning ETA and all else. I gave him the advice that I always use for myself... when in a bad situation at work, get there early, stay late, and bust your balls until it all blows over.) so i was happy to see that he took my advice, one day too late, but all the same. 

this hostile work environment just makes itself worse today. they started nagging about the 45 min "meeting" that I took forgetting about the fact that I get to work an hour early, never take lunch and normally stay late as well. then they harp on me for volunteering for a work event the afternoon. lets take a little look at some numbers... I literally did more work so far this week than all 5 of my co-workers. to make this vague and confusing to everyone... this week our office did 199 projects, 100 of those were mine, the other 99 can be split between the other 5 people. call me crazy and please point out if I am wrong but I think I am earning my keep.

well to make it all worthwhile and to remind myself why I do this... I had a great "meeting" that I pray works out and the event that I helped out with was amazing. Not only did I rub shoulders with some VIPs but I also got to see a VIP, in fact, a very VIP that I know and need to keep in better touch with. (thats on my "to do" list for tomorrow. Its these events that keep me sane.

Wednesday, January 16, 2008

daddy's little girl

if you read my previous post you may understand that I am a little stressed but one long phone call (and I am sure one expensive call from Australia) later, all things feel a little bit better.


I think that I just needed someone to listen to me and let me vent it all out. my dad listened to me talk about my roommate situation, my work situation, my financial situation, and to my good news!

He always takes the time to hear me out and he normally supports my decisions. One great thing about how my parents raised me was that they always took the other side. When I got in trouble they first wanted to know what I did. They didnt blindly take my side and this has made such a big difference in who I have become. I try to see what I did to make a situation worse and what I can learn from it. This surprises my dad now when I get over a situation and how easily I learn a lesson from it. (and this makes me feel better!)

Anyhow... I am and always will be a daddy's girl. He really is my everything! (No matter how far away he lives!)




cute real simple article about dads...

dog eat dog


useless fact: I used to think that this statement was "doggy-dog-world" and it wasnt until I experienced a dog-eat-dog world did I really understand the statement.








There is a disclaimer when you move to the district that if you want a friend... buy a dog. It seems that everyone is out to get you sometimes whether it just be looking out for their own personal interests at any cost or if they are truly out to get you. This is just the way that the city seems to run. In fact, there is an interesting book that just came out... Homo Politicus that sorta hits on this very topic.

Lets review my current situation (both big and small)...

- getting a loan to refinance my car seems to be easier said than done... urgh.

- dealing with co-workers who are a) on a power trip b) not using common sense c) are engaging in a spitting contest (figuratively)... urgh, urgh, urgh.

- two of my roommates have decided to move out and how did they choose to tell me... they didnt. I heard about it from an newsletter posting and a phone call from someone who would like to "check out the room." To go on a little more about this one... I think what hurts the most is that I considered them to be friends and I feel really betrayed by the whole situation... urgh, urgh, urgh!

- I am no fan of relationships and a) an old boyfriend has moved back into town and although I do like hanging out with him I am not ready to get myself into anything here and b) the jerk that I finally have gotten over is slowly making his way back into my life... urgh.

- money is tight and that just always adds frustration... urgh.

- I seem just to be in a sour mood. all of my thoughts are going towards these issues and not to positive things that I am doing with my life. I have found that it is these times of uncertainty that bring me closest to God. There is only so much that you can worry about before you realize that there really isnt that much that you can do about it and you might as well just let Him take the wheel. I feel that He gives us these struggles to remind us of the good and when we are so thick into everything and so upset He gives us a little glimpse of the light. *this may be a story that I will expand upon at a later time.

All 'n all... I see a dog in my future. I sure need a good ol' friend.

Monday, January 14, 2008

why I love dc...

because I like lists and its 2:30am and I cant either sleep or type this is how this blog is going to go:


friday:
- cooked a homemade pizza (reasonably healthy as well with whole wheat thin crust bread, 2% cheese and turkey pepperoni)
- went to chinatown to see bucket list and received a free movie ticket (the bff and I are going to get dogs and name them jack nicholson and morgan freeman)
- decided that we should hook up one my bff's sister and my dearest hispanic friend - priceless
- stopped by my brother's place (lame without all the kickball players)
- drove to eastern market to see if any of the bars were interesting (they werent)
- went to the neighborhood market aka 7/11 and picked up some treats
- then went home and hung out/watched tv/and went to sleep

saturday:
- woke up and made a delicious (and reasonably healthy) breakfast (turkey bacon, whole wheat waffles made with egg whites and vanilla yogurt, then used sugar-free syrup, and egg whites and laughing cow swiss cheese scrambled eggs)
- watched some arrested development
- walked to eastern market and did a little window shoppin'
- ran into an old friend/ got on the metro
- stopped at metro center to get my bff a well needed smart trip card - $5
- transfered at the last minute and went to dupont to have coffee and meet an old friend to watch the "ride the metro w/o your pants" - $6
- got off at foggy bottom and walked to georgetown
- stopped at the four seasons to see the boston celtics coming out
- walked around georgetown/ bought a sweater at jcrew (they are having a great sale - check it out online)
- stumbled upon cafe leopold's in the interior design district of g-town
- went to the movie theater to see if Juno was playing
- it was... so we bought tickets to see it - $10
- bought snacks for my bff - $12
- metro'd home/ went to blockbuster to see my "boifriend" and rented more arrested development and a little big love
- came home on a bus/ watched big love and fell asleep talking to an ex-boyfriend

sunday:
- slept in and didnt go to church :(
- had fruit smoothies and waffles for breakfast
- got ready and drove to friendship heights to go grocery shopping - $80
- dropped of the good ol' bff
- came home and did nothing but took a nap
- see above for the reason why i cannot sleep now

Friday, January 11, 2008

To Do: Become Financially Reponsible

its been on my mind and I am interested in good saving/spending/planning tips:

credit card:

- Pay the balance in full and avoid interest. Beat the card companies at
their own game.
- Never pay late, if possible. Pay by phone, or overnight a
check if necessary.
- Before signing up for a card, assess it carefully and
weigh out all the terms and fees. And remember — just applying for it can affect
your credit score.
- Use higher-interest rewards cards for small purchases
and a low-interest card for any big buys.

Wednesday, January 9, 2008

check...

there is nothing more rewarding that checking something off a "to do" list.


my "to do" list today:
email some people I met over at a holiday open house - check
email a friend about his current job search - check
email a friend about volunteering for a certain campaign - check
finish loan paperwork - check
write thank you notes - check
send post card to an old friend - check
help one of my old interns with her resume - check

they say that instead of making a list with nearly impossible items, try making some easily attainable goals. this way you wont be discouraged.

I have been trying to do this lately and also trying to quit procrastinating on easy goals. I have been meaning to write a friend and send out some holiday thank you notes for two weeks now. do you know how long it took me to check these off the list? like two minutes and I felt so much better after I got it all done.

I have found that it even works for me around the house. instead of putting off the dishes... I do them and I feel so much better.

ahhhhhh. the sigh of relief.

tomorrow:
go to the bank to work on refinancing my car
get new posters for my office

first impressions...

they say that you have only one chance to make a first impression and therefore... i have a little problem with the hallway entrance of my apartment for these reason...


- we place our mail there and it normally stays there for awhile making it look cluttered
- there is nothing there that ties it together, just random items... (lowers, mail, blue plastic box, an offset bulletin board, and a mirror.)
- we just throw stuff on the shelf and it also just sits there
here are some ideas of ways to clean it up a little.

martha stewart will solve the mail problem with this idea...








more to come later...

my boy... johnny mac

lets not be shy about the fact that I am a political junkie and I have jumped on board of the "straight talk express." it has sure been a rocky road but last night was a much needed victory.

Here are the results of the NH primary, (thanks to my favorite political blog, beltway confidential):

These are the results with 91 percent of the New Hampshire precincts reporting:

McCain: 37 percent
Romney: 32 percent
Huckabee:11
percent
Giuliani: 9 percent
Paul: 8 percent
Thomson: 1 percent
Hunter: 1 percent
Clinton: 39 percent

Obama: 36 percent
Edwards:17 percent
Richardson: 5 percent
Kucinich:1 percent
Gravel: Shut-out. Denied!

and just a little treat for you all...

(keepin' it real...)

Monday, January 7, 2008

callin' all holiday cards

okay so I have been meaning to send out a holiday card since ummm... the beginning of December? there has been so much that has happened to me in 2007 that i feel obligated to share it with everyone that has been there along the way. I mean... I did move across the country and start a new job and I haven't been the best at keeping in touch with everyone. now is as good a time as any.

there are so many things that must be done though to send out these darn holiday cards. they are as follows:


1 - write up a little "looking back at 2007" message
2 - buy "0" and "O"stamps for design below...
3 - create labels and list of who I want to send all these too (I imagine I may need my mother's address book for some of these and I'll need to place a call to my old job to get some old client contacts)
4 - buy stamps to mail these suckers
5 - compose and personalize the cards themselves
I want them to be personal but I want to share as much as possible. here is what I am thinking...

luckily I bought these blank cream colored 5 x 7 cards that I placed holiday stickers on already but I can use those next year and I can use the rest of them for this year's project.

Put guests in a bubbly mood with these invites. Download our flute template; print, and cut out. Trace onto inside of front cover of a blank card; cut out with craft knife. Use a glue stick to secure card's open side shut. Cut a piece of card stock to height of card and 1 inch narrower than width. Rubber-stamp "bubbles" on front; write details on back. Slide into card.

"and it was all yellow"


so I tend to be somewhat obsessed with organizing things. as you can see, "getting organized" was not on my list of new year's resolutions.

today at the office, things were a little slow so I decided to clean up my office. at first glance it always seemed to be pretty organized but all you had to do was open a drawer or two and you may see a different story. this was the task I tackled today. but instead of just cleaning everything up, I had to make it look good as well.

like most things in my life (and this isn't a figure of speech) everything is black and white, sometimes with a splash of color. my office was pretty much the same until today when I brought yellow into the mix. I used all yellow folder and accessories and re-organized my office. I even added a yellow ribbon to support the troops!

simple...yet sophisticated.

turning a little green with envy...


recycling may save the planet -- but it ruins the corner of your kitchen until collection day. An easy-to-make sorting station will help you get in order.
MaterialsOne 4-by-4-foot pegboardSemigloss latex paintNine pegboard hooksNine 1/2-inch-thick plastic washersNine 2-inch screwsNine molly boltsThree large handled binsTwo large wire basketsRecycling Station How-To
1. Purchase a 4-by-4-foot pegboard at a home-improvement store (or have one cut to that size). If you like, paint it with a semigloss latex paint and let it dry.
2. Mount the pegboard on the wall. See the following instructions: To mount the recycling station on your wall, first hold the pegboard where you would like it to hang and mark the nine points where screws will be inserted -- one in each corner, one near the middle of each edge, and one in the center. Then install a molly bolt in the wall at each of those marks: Pre-drill a hole in the wall that has the same diameter as the molly's shank, then tap the molly into the hole with a hammer until it is flush with the wall. Next, at each screw position, place a washer on the front of the pegboard before inserting the screw into the board, and then add a plastic spacer to that same screw on the back side of the board. (The plastic spacers will create an open area behind the board for the ends of the hooks to come through.) With all of these layers in place, drive the screws through into the molly bolts to secure the board to the wall.
3. Decide where on the board you'd like your three containers to hang. Insert two of the hooks into the pegboard where each handle will be.
4. Hang the canisters on the hooks and add additional hooks for can liners, twine, and scissors. Place large wire baskets underneath for old newspapers and cardboard refuse.
Sources: 6 1/2-gallon tins, $15 each, and Elfa medium 2-runner drawer, $13.50 each, containerstore.com
First Published: March/April 2007

Sunday, January 6, 2008

new year - new goals

judge me as you will but these are my goals for the year:

1: Floss - twice daily
2: Tan - weekly
3: Write - daily (here on my blog)
4: Pray - daily... if not more than that
5: Exercise - daily... no matter how little or how hard but do it everyday
6: Read - both my scriptures and books that will improve my mind
7: Save - money... I want to start traveling more and be more financially secure
8: Travel - see the world, I need to get over to Australia to see my dad, I know
9: Switch - my car, insurance, and plates all into my name
10: Take - my vitamins each and everyday
11: Eat - healthy foods (more fruits and veggies) and start trying new restaurants and foods
12: Volunteer - at a local pet shelter or other local organizations
13: Spend - more time outdoors... hiking, bike riding, etc
14: Run - start a running program
15: Wake - up earlier and be on time more often
16: Drink - more water everyday
17: Have - better posture
18: Clean - my apartment more often
19: Listen - to more music (and different types)
20: Buy - fresh cut flowers
21: Walk - more places and cut my driving



100 Reasons to Make/Break These Resolutions
From: Blue Print Magazine

50 Reasons To Make These Resolutions

Stop Being Late
1. Truth time: 35 percent of managers don't believe your late-to-work excuses -- no matter how creative.
2. Shaving two minutes from your shower not only gets you where you need to be faster, but also saves up to 14 gallons of water per day.
3. Sign up for a carpool and let the honking horns of strangers hurry you out the door. (Find partnering options at erideshare.com.)
4. The of-the-moment timepieces on page 26 of our January/February issue will keep you on track -- in style.

Don't Judge
5."There's only one corner of the universe you can be certain of improving, and that's your own self."--Aldous Huxley

Shape Up
6. Easy: the no-sweat "15-Minute Desk Workout" video. (sparkpeople.com)
7. Harder: Ana Caban's challenging, yet embarrassment-proof, Pilates DVDs. ($15, gaiam.com)
8. Brutal, but worth it: Stretch yourself with the New York City Ballet's workout DVDs. ($25, nycballet.com)
9. Try before you buy: 1,400 exercise videos, from tai chi to boxing, on netflix.com.
10. The perverse pleasure of aching muscles the day after a serious workout.
11. Enell's "the bounce stops here" sports bra. ($60, enell.com)
12. Runner's high.
13. If David Lee Roth, Will Ferrell, and Oprah Winfrey can complete a marathon, so can you.

Get Organized
14. Brother's P-touch label makers will turn any pack rat into a regular Bree Van De Kamp. ($70, compusa.com)
15. Shrinking bedding and off-season duds in Space Bags = more room for shoes. (9 for $20, spacebag.com)
16. Pile your junk outside, then go to freecycle.org and post a "Curb Alert" for local scavengers.
17. Get assistance online or over the phone from the pros at auctionPAL, and clean out that attic for good. (auctionpal.com)
18. Your thoughts need organizing, too: Jot down your aspirations in Sukie's blank botanical-themed "Turn Over a New Leaf" notebook. ($20, fredflare.com)

Eat Better
19. Cravings usually pass within 15 minutes. (Yes, even for sweets.)
20. If they don't, rest assured that a handful of Route 29 red and black licorice piglets wont turn you into one. ($3, route29napa.com)
21. Find sustainable local food sources by zip code at localharvest.org.
22. Or let the farmer's market come to you with Diamond Organics's mail-order produce.
23. Then preorder John Bishops Fresh: Seasonal Recipes Made From Local Foods ($30, Douglas & McIntyre, March) to learn how to cook...sorrel.
24. Milk the full-flavor possibilities of reduced-fat dairy products: Laughing Cow's Mini Babybel Light;
25. Fage 0 percent Yogurt;
26. and Horizon Organic Low-fat Sour Cream.

Develop Good Daily Habits
27. Put a wrinkle in time: Sunscreen (applied every day) is the best antiaging product on the market (see page 86 of our January/February issue for some of our top picks).
28. A multivitamin like New Chapter Organics Every Woman's One Daily has you covered when you go AWOL on RDAs. ($38, revolutionhealthstore.com)
29. In addition to making you look like an original gangsta, flossin' can actually help you live longer, according to a recent Harvard study.

See the World
30. Go one better than a Eurail pass: Hit up to 23 Asian cities in 21 days for $1,400 (including airfare from L.A., New York, or San Francisco) with Cathay Pacific's 2008 All Asia Pass. (cathayusa.com)
31. Or try out low-stress, low-impact travel on this continent with Amtrak's North America Rail Pass. ($710 for 30 days, amtrak.com)
32. Find a (trustworthy, non-serial-killer) local who speaks your language to meet for drinks or provide a place to crash on couchsurfing.com.
33. For more private lodgings, peruse listings for Umbrian stone villas or modern Maui condos at Vacation Rentals by Owner.

Quit Smoking
34. The soft sell: 20 minutes after quitting, blood pressure drops; after 12 hours, the blood's carbon-monoxide levels return to normal.
35. The hard sell: Calvin Trillin's tribute to his wife, a nonsmoker who developed lung cancer -- perhaps from secondhand smoke -- in "About Alice" ($15, Random House).
36. The really hard sell: A sad-but-effective antismoking ad in which a woman puffs through a hole in her throat. (youtube.com)
37. The money: A pack-a-day habit sends $1,657 a year (on average) up in smoke.

Make a Contribution
38. Volunteermatch.org will hook you up with a nearby organization that needs your abilities.
39. For canine companionship without furniture covered in dander, offer to walk an elderly neighbor's dog. (Bonus points if you do so when it's icy.)
40. Charity Navigator's rating system will help you make a donation that does not go to waste.

Nix the Nail-Nibbling
41.Weekly manicures. (Sometimes the best deterrent is a reward.)

Find a Better Job
42. Scan thousands of do-gooder opportunities (that also pay the rent) on idealist.org.
43. A mentor from SCORE's nationwide network of entrepreneurs will give advice on how to develop a business (and/or escape) plan.
44. Learn from "CEO of Me: Creating a Life That Works in the Flexible Job Age", by work/life researchers Ellen Kossek and Brenda Lautsch ($25, Wharton School Publishing).
45. Contact Count Me In, a nonprofit dedicated to promoting women-owned businesses, to apply for your own start-up micro loan.

Spend (and Save) Smarter
46. Use mint.com to track your checking, savings, credit, and work accounts in one place -- and find out exactly where those paychecks have been going.
47. Earn real interest on savings: HSBC Direct and WaMu offer new online customers about 5%.
48. Listen to Wallace D. Wattles's timeless classic, "The Science of Getting Rich", on CD ($15, Simon and Schuster Audio, February).
49. Read "You're Broke Because You Want to Be: How to Stop Getting By and Start Getting Ahead", by Larry Winget ($20, Gotham Books, January).

Print Your Digital Photos (Finally)
50. Our guide on page 58 of our January/February issue will kick-start the process (and point you toward an at-home printer that'll reduce your dependence on drugstore photo kiosks)

50 Reasons To Break These Resolutions

Give Up Sweets and Fat (and Flavor)
1. A recent Cornell study showed that diners at "healthy" restaurants consume more calories than they do when eating at "normal" ones.
2. Grateful Palate's Bacon of the Month Club delivers artisanal flavor (plus recipes) right to your front door. ($140 for a year, gratefulpalate.com)
3. What better excuse could there be than National Pizza Week, January 13-19?
4. Flip through journalist Michael Pollan's "In Defense of Food: The Myth of Nutrition and the Pleasures of Eating" ($22, Penguin, January).
5. From what we've heard, French women don't get fat on Fauchon's madeleines, foie gras, and Banana and Passion Absolut Fruit preserves. (fauchon.com)
6. Great call: Switch to CREDO long-distance phone service and get coupons for free pints of Ben & Jerry's for a year with monthly bills.

Eliminate Nonessential Spending
7. Yoox.com's twice-yearly online sample sale (up to 80% off European designers like Alberta Ferretti and Dolce & Gabbana) is practically an investment opportunity.
8. Gold-leather-bound dictionaries aren't recherche fripperies, they're desk desiderata. ($156, graphicimage.com)
9. More OnGossamer underwear means fewer laundry days. ($13 and up, figleaves.com)
10. Shopping Etsy's indie-crafter wares is like becoming a patron of the arts.

Stop Mainlining Celebrity Gossip
11. No one deconstructs Chloe Sevigny's headline-making out-fits like the Fug Girls. (gofugyourself.com)
12. Authors like Edith Wharton and F. Scott Fitzgerald wrote about socialites and strivers about a century ago.
13. "Train Wreck: The Life and Death of Anna Nicole Smith" -- written by her half sister (ouch!)out in February ($16, Phoenix Books).
14. Stock up on printable book covers to disguise your trashiest reads on the subway. (katespade.info)

Lay Off the Sauce
15. The passionate forums and home-brew recipes at ratebeer.com.
16. Your Prohibition-era grandparents who can still appreciate -- and prepare -- an expert dirty martini.
17. The delicious double-layered flavor of smooth Don Eduardo Tequila Anejo, aged for two years in former bourbon barrels. ($59, gothamwines.com)
18. "Le Beaujolais Nouveau est arrive!" (And will soon sortir.)
19. Costco's quality vino selection and 15% markup limit allow you to bring home cases of Wine Spectator champions.

Cut Back on Text Messaging
20. According to "The Green Book", by Elizabeth Rogers and Thomas M. Kostigen ($13, Three Rivers Press), 30 times more energy is used to send an e-mail than a text message. (^urs, email.)

Be More Productive at Work
21. Daytime naps boost memory.
22. The hilarious play-by-play episode recaps of your favorite shows on television withoutpity.com: faster (and cheaper) than TiVo.
23. The Great Wall of China is not visible to the naked eye from the moon, Twinkies do not have an infinite shelf life, and other insidious legends and urban myths dispelled. (snopes.com)
24. Comfort yourself with someone else's petty workplace drama. (passiveaggressivenotes.com)
25. Nothing erases the memory of that lame Monday-morning meeting like a new series of LOLcats vignettes. (icanhascheezburger.com)

Practice Moderation
26. Excess can bring fame. Witness the star turns of: Big Mac-binger Morgan Spurlock in "Super Size Me";
27. Rock of Love-er Bret Michaels;
28. sun-worshipper George Hamilton;
29. self-deprecator Kathy Griffin;
30. beehive-sporter Amy Winehouse;
31. and the entire city of Dubai.

Get Your House in Order
32. If it's truly bad, a TV crew will do it for you. Find casting info for: nearly three dozen home-improvement shows at hgtv.com;
33. TLC's Clean Sweep;
34. or the Style Network program "My Celebrity Home".

Dress Better for the Office
35. High heels throw the hips and spine out of alignment and put unhealthy pressure on feet leading to pricey cab rides.
36. The Environmental Protection Agency's decision not to release its "risk assessment" findings of the common dry-cleaning chemical PERC until 2009.
37. Not to mention all the excess plastic clothing bags and wire hangers you'll bring home (and probably toss) in the meantime.

Watch Less TV
38. To judge how the new class stacks up against the shows that inspired them, see: Bravo's Niki Taylor and Tyson Beckford hosted "Make Me a Supermodel" (ANTM minus Tyra's antics);
39. ABC's "Dance War: Bruno vs. Carrie Ann" (Dancing With the Stars with more Drew Lachey);
40. Fox's "New Amsterdam" (CSI with immortality);
41. AMCs "Breaking Bad" (Weeds with meth);
42. and NBCs "Lipstick Jungle" (Sex and the City with more career quandaries).

Live as Though Your Doctor Were Watching
43. From the annals of great excuses: "If you resolve to give up smoking, drinking, and loving, you don't actually live longer; it just seems longer." -- Clement Freud

Mind the Details
44. OCD can be: off-putting (see Tony Shalhoub in "Monk");
45. tedious (Jack Nicholson in "As Good as It Gets");
46. counter-productive (James Spader in "Secretary");
47. and particularly hard on relationships (Howard Hughes).

Cut Out Caffeine
48. Coffee-shop lattes finance WiFi. Find a cafe-hotspot near you on wififreespot.com.
49. The not-too-earthy flavors of antioxidant-rich white and green teas from Mighty Leaf. ($9 for 15 bags)

Stop Putting Things Off
50. You can always start your resolutions with the Chinese New Year, on February 7.

stayin' strong this winter


here is a great article that I read about in Blue Print Magazine...

Winter Health Primer

If there's one drawback to the holiday season, it's that cold and flu season isn't far behind. So Blueprint asked internist Amy Bleyer, M.D., to make a house call. As a doctor, mother, and subway rider, she's exposed daily to everything from strep throat to the common cold -- yet, remarkably, she's been sick only once in the past eight years. So what is her superhuman secret? "Prevention is really the best strategy," she says. "Learning how to wipe out any infection fast is the other." Bleyer's two-pronged approach to health will reduce sniffles, sneezes, aches, and pains -- and keep you in high spirits.

Dr. Bleyer's Prevention Plan
Why do some people get sick (and seem to remain sick) while others stay well? "A lot of it is genes," Bleyer says, "Immune systems vary." But there are ways to boost your body's defenses. For starters, get eight hours of sleep each night, fit in regular workouts, and manage stress, which affects your ability to fight infection.

Keep it Clean
Most germs are passed through contact, not by airborne transmission, explains Bleyer. So washing your hands is the most important thing you can do to prevent illness. The key: Soap up often and for at least 15 seconds (research shows this is enough time to kill germs). And your soap needn't have the stripping powers of rubbing alcohol. According to a recent study in the "Harvard Health Letter", regular soap reduces bacteria counts by 90 percent, comparable to those skin-parching antibacterial solutions. At every sink in Bleyer's home she keeps Method Hand Wash (above), a gentle cleanser with aloe and vitamin E. She also carries Kirkland Signature Premium Baby Wipes in her purse ($18, Costco). "They're great for wiping up hands after being on the subway or a playground," she says. On the flip side, always use a tissue to cover your nose and mouth when sneezing or coughing to help prevent germs from spreading. Although that's hard to do with little kids, Bleyer admits. I have a 2-year-old who sometimes asks for a tissue. But other times, when I look down, I see he's used his shirt instead."

Drink Up
Bleyer starts her morning with a large cup of Tetley tea (above) with honey and lemon. Many studies show that black tea, which contains more detoxifying antioxidants and less caffeine than coffee, helps neutralize germs and prevent the clogging of arteries that can lead to a heart attack. Bleyer aims to drink at least 64 ounces of fluid a day. "Water keeps your cells healthy so that your immune system functions optimally, she says. "Just remember that anything caffeinated actually dehydrates you, so it not only doesn't count toward your daily intake, it takes away from it. You need to counter every caffeinated drink with another glass of water. Mid-morning, Bleyer switches from tea to water, and sips on several glasses during the day. To help meet both her fluid and calcium requirements (1,000 mg), she often drinks a glass of calcium-fortified orange juice (350 mg), too.

Nourish Your Body
"Most of my nutrients come from my diet, which is ideal, Bleyer says. She eats a variety of immunity-boosting fruits and vegetables, and has fish, like salmon, twice a week to get its heart-healthy omega-3 fatty acids. Because balanced meals aren't always an option, she takes a multivitamin every night. She likes One-A-Day for Women (above) because the tablets contain 45 percent (450 mg) of the daily calcium requirement for women of childbearing age. "They're also inexpensive and easy to find," she adds. For pregnant women -- or those trying to be -- Bleyer prefers Twinlab Pre-Natal Care capsules ($26, drugstore.com), which she took while pregnant and nursing. They're easy to swallow and never upset my stomach, she says. Hormonal fluctuations can account for many physical changes during pregnancy, but my hair never looked healthier or my skin clearer."

Get a Flu Shot
"I get a flu vaccine [above] every year and encourage my patients to do the same," she says. The vaccine is available from September to February and is effective for about a year. It's best to get a shot in October or November, as the flu usually strikes between December and March. The vaccine exposes you to three strains of influenza (the strains vary each year) so that your body can make protective antibodies to fight them. While the shot is no guarantee you won't catch the flu -- you could get it in the two weeks before the vaccine starts working or be exposed to a strain you haven't been inoculated against -- Bleyer still believes it's a worthy preventive measure.

Moisturize Your Skin
Strange but true: Hydrated skin actually helps block bugs. "When your skin is dry and cracked, it allows germs to enter," Bleyer says. Her hands get very dry, thanks to multiple washings with harsh medical antimicrobial soaps at work. So I have bottles of Neutrogena Norwegian Formula Hand Cream [above] everywhere, she says. She also prefers Lubriderm Daily Moisture Lotion ($4, drugstores) for her body, and her favorite lip balm is L'Occitane Mini Pure Shea Butter ($8, loccitane.com).

Her Rx for Everything (Well, Almost Everything)
If you're coming down with something, don't try to be a hero by hauling yourself into the office. The sniffles are one thing (it could just be allergies), but if you have a high fever, killer sore throat, or the chills, you shouldn't inflict your germs on your coworkers. Below are Dr. Bleyer's treatments for the most common symptoms under the winter sun.

Sore Throat
As soon as you feel that funny tickle or the slightest itch, increase your fluid intake, Bleyer says. She suggests warm liquids, like tea or hot water with honey and lemon, because they're soothing. Or try drinks with body-replenishing electrolytes, such as Vitaminwater Power-C (above) or Gatorade, to stay hydrated. Gargling with salt water can also help. If your throat really hurts, she recommends crushing 200 mg of generic ibuprofen (above) in six to eight ounces of warm water, and gargling with it. It acts like a local anesthetic, alleviating the pain and inflammation, she says. Most scratchy throats will go away on their own in a few days, but if you have a fever above 101 degrees, notice white patches on your tonsils or redness in your throat, or if it's incredibly painful to swallow, see a doctor.

Cold
If you have a runny nose and feel tired and achy, you'll need to rest right away in order to recover fast. In the morning, Bleyer recommends one or two Advil Cold & Sinus Non-Drowsy formula caplets (above), which contain a pain reliever, fever reducer, and decongestant. At night, clean your sinuses with a neti pot (available at health-food stores), which resembles a Lilliputian watering can. It's a very old practice that involves pouring warm salt water into your nasal cavity and then blowing your nose, she explains. It's not exactly something you want to do in front of loved ones, but "it really improves sinus drainage. Bleyer also suggests sleeping with a humidifier on to keep nasal passages clear and moisturized. A cold can last five to 10 days, but if you're going deep into your second week, have a temperature above 101 degrees, or are experiencing symptoms like nausea, vomiting, or severe chills, it's time to head to the doctor. You may have the flu, pneumonia, or a sinus infection.

Cough
Got a runny nose and congestion, coupled with coughing? Take one or two Mucinex tablets (above) every 12 hours. Mucinex contains guaifenesin, an expectorant that helps you cough up more, uh, mucus. As much as you want to stop coughing, its best not to suppress it: Coughing really helps clear out your lungs. So the more productive your cough is, the better," Bleyer says. "I prefer this particular formula because it doesn't contain a suppressant." If you're wondering whether you should see a doctor, use the phlegm test (kind of gross, yes) as your indicator: If yours is greenish or brown, it may be a sign that you need an antibiotic.

Headache
For the occasional headache, take 400 mg of ibuprofen (above) or 220 mg of naproxen (found in Aleve), and follow up with the same dose as directed if the pain doesn't subside. Be sure to take ibuprofen with food, as it can irritate your stomach lining over time, Bleyer says. If you get chronic headaches, start keeping a journal to log patterns. Write down what you ate that day, if you have your period, and where your head aches specifically. Migraines tend to hurt on just one side of the head and may cause nausea or sensitivity to noise and light. Tension headaches feel like a tightening on both sides of the head. And sinus headaches have a similar pressure, but manifest under the eyes and around cheeks. If headaches cause you to reach inside the medicine cabinet two or three times a week, visit your doctor.

Upset Stomach
A stomach virus -- which may cause nausea, vomiting, diarrhea, aches, and a low-grade fever -- requires plenty of rest and lots of clear fluids to avoid dehydration, Bleyer explains. Stick to light-colored beverages and soups at first. Then slowly introduce soft foods such as toast, bananas, mashed potatoes, and applesauce. Food poisoning usually erupts two to 12 hours after eating, and once your system rids itself of the offending substance, you'll feel better. If it's simply heartburn or indigestion you're experiencing, take two Pepto-Bismol Chewable Tablets (above) every hour. If it happens to you frequently, consider this: New research shows that indigestion can be prevented by chewing sugarless gum after eating. The extra saliva your mouth produces helps neutralize stomach acid.

First Published: November/December 2007

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